This morning Lorien and I went to visit a counselor (okay, a shrink). It was real interesting. We talked about the important things to talk about before you get married. The neat thing is we already talked about most of them. She’s (the shrink) really helped Lorien adapt to her changing life because of me
I guess I haven’t been bothered so much, since I’ve been single much longer I think I may be a little more ready to commit to marriage. Or maybe I just don’t worry about it as much. It was neat to see all the signs of good and bad relationships. Some of the signs are:
Getting married because your friends are doing it—bad
Getting married on a dare—bad (duh)
Having a year courtship and at least a six-month engagement—good
Parents are okay with you getting married to each other—good
Getting married because you’re pregnant—bad
Waiting to have children until after the first year of marriage—good
You know, it all makes sense. The good signs are seen more often in lasting relationships. Not to say that those that have the bad signs can’t have a good relationship, but on the whole, I believe that they’re right.
Never done this before, but I just had to post this word I just learned:
Callipygian (adj.): having shapely buttocks
bwa-hahahahaha!